Self-made man: My year disguised as a man is a book written by journalist Norah Vincent. Before discussing the book further, it must be said that this is a kind of experimentation which women have thought of doing to invade into traditional male spaces and know more about what happens there. Vincent recounts something similar in her book. She states that:
male-dominated spaces: She did an
18-month-old experiment where she discussed herself as a man who she named
“Ned” and integrated herself into traditional male-centric
places or venues. This includes places like the bowling league as well as
a monastery. In the book, she talks about what she and experienced in
other men only places like strip clubs and such. She also details her
experiences in men’s s support groups and on dates as well.
Not a transgender but
a lesbian: While some may
construe this activity as her coming out or becoming a transgender but she
stated it clearly in the book that she isn’t a transgender but only a
How did she
Vincent got a
buzz cut to pose as a man and even used a sports bra to flatten her chest. She
got makeup artists so that she could have a fake beard shadow. That’s not all,
she also trained her voice for months so that it sounded deeper and bulked up
to gain more upper body muscle.
suffering. They have different problems than women have but they don’t have it
better. They need our sympathy, they need our love, and they need each other
more than anything else. They need to be together.”
this she also states that many thought that her butch qualities (in female
spaces) were considered to be effeminate in men’s circles.
In the book,
she expands more on how men suffer under older men and there is a very toxic
cycle that continues. This results in the misogyny of course but it also
results in depression and other issues in men who can’t even articulate it
properly due to traditional unspoken male laws. …
Massage chairs must seem like a gift from heaven after a long day at work. It helps one relax and some time in it seems to get rid of all kinds of body issues. While you were relaxing in that chair, you must have often wondered how did it manage to do it. So let’s talk about it along with all the benefits of it:
It helps one heal quickly
Relieving tension from the body is very important if you want to function fully on an everyday basis. But this tension should be relieved in a harmless manner so that it doesn’t accidentally add on to your pain and worries. Massage chairs are able to do just that with the different kinds of settings that it has. You can gauge your own stress and tension levels and then proceed to set the level of massage which makes you the most comfortable and relaxed. This is certainly more effective than going to a masseuse who you won’t be able to dictate to about the speed and strength to be used.
It costs less
Buying just one massage chair will be enough to last you for years. You can use it according to your wants and then get it tuned up when needed. This will certainly cost less than going to a masseuse and that too periodically. Moreover, a massage chair will relax your whole body but a masseuse might not be able to do so.
You can easily take a book and then settle down in your massage chair. The vibrations or movements of the chair aren’t so powerful that it will disturb your reading rhythm. In reality, you will be fell relaxed, be able to read a book and then probably be able to go to sleep there as well if the chair setting is on low. Using a massage chair is a really great way to unwind after a long day.
Get ahead and foot massage
One of the best parts of all massage chairs is that you will be able to get ahead and foot massage at least. Of course, there are massage chairs that allow you to get shoulder and back massage as well but a head and foot massage are common in all. This is possible due to airbags in the massage chair which moves in several different directions so that it gives your head and feet a full massage. These airbags commonly move in the S and L track as well so that you can get a variety of head and foot massages. After all, it’s your head and feet which bears the brunt of the day’s labour mentally and physically.
Basically, in a massage chair, you will have a remote controller with you that will allow you to get the massage intensity you want. It will also allow you to set the timer so that you get to be in the mood and intensity you want.
The whole massage session is always a deeply comforting and pleasing experience. In this, massage chairs will satisfyingly improve your mental well-being. The massage sessions will certainly help uplift your mood, help in ensuring you have better blood circulation and help you relax as well. …
A homeschooling parent should take
inventory of the talents in other family members around him or her. For
example, I have a friend whose Grandfather was a journalist. This Grandfather
drove thirty miles each way once per week to give his homeschooled
grandchildren a lesson in writing. This gave the mother a break for two hours
The children also benefit from shared
family talent. If mom is not a good writer, but Granddad is, then the kids
benefit by learning from someone who can give them real writing expertise.
Chances are, their writing ability will be higher than it would have been
before Granddad started helping out.
How to take a family inventory:
Write a list of all of your family and
friends. Next to each name, write their strengths. To list their strengths
think about what degree(s) they hold, or what they studied in college. List
their natural talents as well, such as art or music.
Contact each family member and ask them
if they would like to participate in your homeschooling endeavor. They don’t
have to commit to giving lessons every day or even once per week. They could
simply come the first Monday of every month or the last Tuesday of the month,
whatever works with their schedules. Once per week may be ideal for the main
subjects, but it is not necessary if you want them to come to do a craft with
My father has published numerous
science fair project books so whenever my daughter has a science fair project
to do, I take her to his house. The difficulties I would have had in teaching
that particular project, he made easy. My daughter was able to understand the
concepts and she had a lot of fun working with her Grandfather. This may only
happen once or twice per month, but it is still a big help.
Include anyone in the family, if they
are willing to help. You can always put them in charge of taking the kids on a
nature walk or practicing soccer moves in the back yard.…